A Good Letting Alone

My American grandmother (Helen) hailed from rural southern Michigan. She had wonderful aphorisms, many original to her family of origin. Sometimes fierce conflict occurs between two people who essentially love each other. It may be related to a matter which appears to be irreconcilable. Helen believed that a period of time without speaking might be needed. The parties are then be able to "lick their wounds" and reflect that the relationship itself is very dear to them. Important enough that the matter at hand may not even need to be completely resolved. Conversely, one party may be able to give way or apologize. In essence the break in hostilities may aid resolution. I also believe the phrase lends hope to the belief that people are essentially good and can come around.